End of Month

I was out again today celebrating my co-worker’s baby shower and my yearender entry is going to miss the deadline. Oh wait, its overdue already. Well anyway, I’m so tired and I have to go to work early tomorrow. I just want to share some photos from the baby shower and I’ll see you guys tomorrow.

Daddy Mark and Mommy Iwalani

They were having a moment. haha

Chill fellas, don't get too excited. It's not a Bikini Open. It's only a "Diaper Making Game"

Opening Baby Noah's gift.

Before we head out.

And the fellas. She's not my kid, you can tell. lol

We started driving back south around 8 and it was creepy foggy. While driving home, I checked my phone and I had a text message from a dude from Texas-he was an online/phone "friend" for 14 months now and prior to that, I keep on receiving text messages from him this month but I surely won't reply back at him ever anymore. To find out why, just keep on checking my page and I'll post the details about him and the reason why I have to cut the connection.

P.S. Don't forget to watch the 43rd Superbowl Game tomorrow. Go Steelers! =)

Continuation

I noticed something’s missing from the First Quarter portion of my last entry. Lucas Garrison was the third dude I went out on a date with. Mid of March when we started talking. The approach was kind of normal. He said I’m cute-I know that already, *grin*. And complimented my lips a lot, well he said it was kissable (dude he needed a pair of bifocals) and just to be polite; of course I said “Thank you”. I haven’t gotten such a huge compliment ever and I don’t know how to acknowledge it. Anyway, He asked me to go out right away when we first chatted. We picked a day during the week and it was a Wednesday if I’m not mistaken. He insisted to pick me up so I told him to park in front of the store where I work and I’m just going to meet him there. When I was walking towards the store, I saw a 5 ft 7 inches tall, 31 years old white dude in front of the main entrance. He’s a mature Macaulay Culkin look-alike-not that look from Home Alone. He was wearing a leather jacket and looks so formal while I’m wearing a shirt and a pair of jeans with my fave leather shoes but I look so casual. I want to discuss what kind of car he has but I forgot what type and the maker of the car. It was a two seater red convertible sports car. Pretty cozy actually. We went to eat dinner in an Oriental restaurant called Pei Wei in Mission Valley. We decided to watch a movie after dinner and while walking toward the movie theatre, he grabbed my waist. It was somehow awkward coz in the first place, he’s a li’l shorter than me and second we were in public but I still played it cool. The movie was scheduled at 9:45pm and my watch reads 8:30pm. We roamed around the mall first, holding hands, coz we were so freaking early. It was freezing outside and we decided to go inside the movie theatre and we still have to wait for 45. We were the first couple in that room. We sat towards the very last row at the back. We were talking about stuff when suddenly his tongue was inside my mouth and I realized we were in the middle of a lip locking moment already. I aggressively fought back to show him my secret ability. I had his lower lip for 20 seconds. I stepped back when I felt his hand inside my shirt touching the most sensitive part of my chest. I said “what was that?” and then he smiled and the audience started to show up. He drove me home after and sealed the night with a kiss.

Thirteenth Month

I have no chance to write a year ender blog entry during the holidays so now I’m giving it a shot. Basically, what happened last year was a tremendous transformation of my existence. I tried to go out on a date with several dudes, travel to a lot of places, got my first digital SLR camera courtesy of my brother and a load of interesting tale I’ve experienced. I have to split it into four segments so you guys are not going to get bored.

First Quarter

I’ve been a member of “Gay Hook up Sites” since 05 but I started to chat with some guys, late of 07 just to try to meet new personas and possibly hit the dating scene. Chatting was my life every time I’m off. Some guys are cool but most of them are well, so “gay” and too obsess about themselves. Then I met Christopher Moore-my first real date. I saw him in the list of dudes who viewed my profile so I checked his profile too. He was 39 years old white dude, riding a sports bike in his photo. I wrote him a message saying “nice bike, how’s it going?” and that’s how the conversation flourished into a friendship and lead us not into something kinky but most likely a rated G manner, we decided to meet up on a date. He was originated from New Jersey. He was a computer graphic designer when he was in East Coast. A cousin of him here in San Diego asked him to be his roommate so he decided to move here for good. We went out for quite sometime and he’s definitely the sweetest guy ever but I realized there are a lot of things that he needed to focus on, so before the summer time kicked in, I stopped going out with him. The good thing is, we did not burn the bridge connecting us and recently he told me he’s going back to New Jersey. I’m not going to tell any details but I think that’s a good move for him.

I did not expect it’s going to be a hectic week for me before lover’s day hits the calendar. It was the 12th (Tuesday) when a dude named Dan asked me to have a lunch date with him. He was tall and way older than Chris. Anyway, we went to eat in a Thai restaurant somewhere in North Park area. He’s a freelance buy and sell property agent and we’ve talked about houses, properties, more houses and more properties. I got home full and ready to take a nap. The next day (Wednesday) was the day for Chris. We went to watch a movie “Cloverfield’ and that was it. Lover’s day (Thursday) was the day I spent with my “single” friends from work. Cheesecake Factory was our dinner venue and we’ve watched “Step up 2” afterwards. The post lover’s day, the 15th (Friday) was for my Filipino friends. They really want to go out that Thursday but with my fully booked planner that week, I can’t even squeeze my stress relief session. We had a good dinner though in a Mexican restaurant called Guadalajara in the heart of Old Town. And to wrap up the story, here’s a photo of us in Old Town.

Before the first quarter ends, I’ve meet another dude online named Leon and the rest of the details of our dates started in April.

Reconnecting

There is something wrong going on today. My days has been calm since last weekend, til today, I received a text message from a dude I’ve dated (not exclusive) after 61 days of not hearing any news from him-well, he texted me last New Year- but I haven’t gotten a chance to really talk to him just to see whats new in his life and stuff or say “Hi” at least.

I was thinking of not sending him a reply coz the last time I called him, he was going out with the dude he’s seeing so I thought it’s better for me to just disappear from the picture forever but after a couple of hours, could not help myself but to press some keys and hit the send button. My first text says, “Don’t tell me that was a booty call?” and he replied “lol. Damn right!” so I texted, “Well, I’ll pass, thank you though!” but so much for that. He asked me if I was home and when I said yes he called me and we were talking about stuff like him and Alex-the dude he was dating for awhile-is going to take their relationship to the next level which is moving-in together, must be nice but he mentioned that Alex always brings violence into their relationship and he doesn’t like it, so if the moving-in-together-step will not work out, then he said they have to call it quits. I’m really glad we had that talk. He was saying, he doesn’t have the time for himself or hang out with his friends for four months and now he got his normal schedule back, he could reconnect with his friends again and he still owes me a dinner so I think I’m gonna see him again after all.

After we hang up the phone, I checked my mail and I got a friend request in myspace from a dude named Eduardo. When I opened it, it was the dude from San Antonio Texas(originally). It was Edward-the dude that I met online-Manhunt- and wants to meet me in Vegas back then. We stopped texting/calling each other in a long while. Just to give you some background, He has a 17 y/o son and a 13 y/o daughter, was divorced for ten years now. He was the sweetest guy I’ve ever met online but his “Peter Pan,” not that impressive.